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Despite typically keeping details of their marriage private,Leighton Meesteris opening up about her life with husbandAdam Brody.

“We’re super, super lucky, and I think we recognize how lucky we are with one another,” Leighton said.

“We give each other a lot of respect and time and attention and focus — like, really put our time and energy into a relationship.”

Leighton and Adam have been married for nine years. Theybegan datingafter filmingThe Orangestogether back in 2010. They got engaged in 2013 and tied the knot in a small ceremony on Feb. 15, 2014.

And while she knows their relationship is far from perfect, theEXmasstar said they’ve found a way to “just make it work” through the “good and the hard” times.

Leighton and Adam also have two children together, who they prefer to keep out of the spotlight — an 8-year-old daughter named Arlo and a 3-year-old son, whose name has not been made public yet.

The two have continued to flourish on-and-off screen as they’ve shared the screen together on several projects, including episodes ofSingle Parentsand their latest action-thrillerRiver Wild.

To hear more, be sure to check out the fullE! Newsinterview withLeighton Meestertonight at 11 p.m. EST.

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Closeup of Leighton Meester smiling as she walks outside

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Closeup of Leighton Meester and Adam Brody on the red carpet

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Closeup of Adam and Leighton

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