" If I ’m hearing about a problem in our relationship from someone else rather than the partner . It shows huge trust number . "
Recently, Reddit useru/Shinfektaposed thequestion, “What red flag is an instant break-up reason for you?” And there were so many great answers! Here are some of the top-voted responses:
1.“Not being a priority. Not making time. The busiest people on earth make time for what they like and love. If they’re not making time, don’t waste yours.”
" I ’m not saying you even have to be number one or that things do n’t get hectic . But if you earn you ’re systematically an rethink , do yourself a favor and take the thought out of their mind . "
– uracil / Zestyclose - Pack-8423
2.“Someone who casually says they’ve cheated. There’s no way around that for me.”
– atomic number 92 / Kitchen - Bid-8235
" Or spoilt , when they treat cheating as somehow noble . "
– u/2diceMisplaced
" And they say it was ' mend ' or ' ego - discovery . ' "
– uranium / GhostWCoffee
3.“If I’m hearing about a problem in our relationship from someone else rather than the partner. It shows huge trust issues.”
" I ’ve seen three divorce in my life sentence , and they all were the outcome of the woman venting to her female parent and her ally about issues she should have talk over with her husband . "
– u / michajlo
" Hey , my ex did that shit , and you could totally severalise by how muted and cumbersome their friends become around you . Also , there ’s always that one booster who suddenly has a fucking attitude when you talk to them . Trust your gut when have things like this . "
– u/8_bit_brandon
4.“Might be silly and unreasonable, but lying about something small with the ‘I was afraid you would XYZ excuse.’ If they’re willing to lie about something small, then they will absolutely lie about something big.”
– u / Fluffy - Copy660
5.“Physical violence. I am simply not dealing with that shit. Put hands on me, throw shit, hell, even destroy my property on purpose? Pack your fucking bags. I am too old to tolerate that level of disrespect.”
– u / the_river_nihil
6.“How they treat animals, children, elderly, people with disabilities, and service workers.”
– u / Starfleet - Dropout-99
7.“Being mean as their ‘thing’ or ‘just a joke.'”
– u / etsbr
" ' I ’m justsassy ! ' No , you ’re a bitch . "
– u / BansheeShriek
8.“Mistrust. If I have to PROVE to them that I am trustworthy when I’ve never given them a reason not to trust me, that’s a no-go. It always start as innocent check-ins at random times, then it’s ‘let me check your phone,’ ‘give me the password to your messenger,’ and escalating their need for control.”
" It comes from them being unsafe , not you being untrustworthy . Even if you routinely test your trustiness , it is not pass away to prepare their insecurities , and so they ’ll just continue postulate more and more . "
– uracil / Crusty_Dingleberries
" Agreed . I ca n’t stick out people creeping over my personal space to satisfy their insecurities . If you ca n’t commit me to be loyal to you , then do n’t be in a human relationship with me . I ’m too stock for this teenage angst crap . I do n’t intend to drop my liveliness coddling and comforting my partner at the expense of my saneness . "
– u / Ptatofrenchfry
9.“Never admitting a mistake.”
– u / queer - Force5819
" A medium frequency who ca n’t say dingy for their own actions is the worst . "
– uranium / ahnarinn
10.“Always feeling the need to one-up you rather than listening. ‘Yeah, I know you’re suffering, but so am I. Feel sad for me, too.'”
– uranium / Jokesonyouiwannadie
11.“If someone follows Andrew Tate. Or if he says that he’s open-minded and will ALLOW me to work. Like, seriously dude?”
– u / Big_Young_9260
" The mo I hear them talking about ' alpha male ' influencers , I ’m bolting in the other direction . "
– u / LovesCatsAlot
12.“Too attached to an ex, or obsessed with keeping exes around as friends.”
– u / Separate - Life4570
13.“Not treating me as I treat her.”
– u / Scarlet_Addict
" This is the one I resonate with most . It really imbibe when you put all your free energy into someone ’s welfare and receive impassivity or the bare minimum . "
– u / Lucid_tripping
14.“Requires me to be vegan. You do you, but I love steak and eggs.”
– u / Drach88
15.And finally, “If they see a dog stretch, and they don’t say, ‘BIG STREEETCH.'”
– u / Faster76
mark : Some response have been edited for length and/or clearness .
