" ONE extra bedroom that serves multiple purposes . It is a guest way / office/‘home gym’/craft elbow room / play room . In my experience with wealthy families , each of these things has its own way . Financially unstable families are unlikely to have an extra bedroom to spare . "

Listen, class structures are real and imposed upon us by societyandcapitalistic structures. So it makes sense that people would identify certain things as “middle class.”

Redditor u/AutisticGuy789recentlyaskedthe people of Reddit, “What is something uniquely middle class, that neither the poor nor rich experience?” Everyone’s got opinions like these, and maybe you agree (or disagree) with a few of them:

1.“Budgeting for holidays. The rich don’t need to, and the poor can’t afford holidays.”

— u / KommieKoala

2.“Probably stressing about home ownership and mortgages. The rich probably already have multiple homes, and it’s already beyond attainment for the poor.”

— u / tsuigeo

3.“Having a two-car garage that’s so full of random shit that you can only get one car in it.”

— uranium / GuLshannnn

4.“Making choices on what to buy at the Book Fair.”

— atomic number 92 / SirSkyStudios

5.“Mowing the yard.”

— u / moldy_walrus

6.“As a kid, going on a roadtrip to somewhere fun — but the whole way there, you can only eat the food your mom packed from home. It’s really sad when you’re 9 years old and your family pulls over into the Burger King parking lot just so you all can eat the soggy sandwiches from the cooler.”

— atomic number 92 / MakesLoveToGundams

7.“Costco runs? Samples, a full cart, the food court. I’m guessing rich people don’t hang out here, but I don’t know.”

— u / Nutsnboldt

8.“Saving for retirement.”

— u / PrettyGirlsLoveSmino

9.“Above-ground pools in the backyard.”

— uranium / TheGargageMan

10.“Massive college debt. The rich just pay for it, and the poor typically qualify for way more financial assistance. Of course, there are other debts associated with college, but if you have lower-middle income parents who don’t want to pay a dime for college, you are pretty fucked. I’d also include kids of rich people who don’t want to help with college, but they are more likely to have other relatives who might help.”

— atomic number 92 / AlwaysSaysRepost

11.“Long roadtrips by car.”

— atomic number 92 / Heavy_Direction1547

12.“Saving for kids’ college. The rich don’t have to, and the poor don’t have anything to save.”

— u / BenjaminMStocks

13.“I think eating leftovers the next day or making casseroles is middle class. I have been in the poor category, and we did not have anything left over to eat the next day, and we never had a casserole. In the middle class, I have access to recipes and more money to combine foods.”

— u / rosanna124

14.“Tools. The poor can’t afford them, and the rich pay someone else to fix it.”

— u/_duckswag

15.“Low-end all-inclusive resorts. The rich avoid them for a higher-class experience; the poor can’t afford them.”

— u / IntolerantModerate

16.“ONE extra bedroom that serves multiple purposes. It is a guest room/office/‘home gym’/craft room/play room. In my experience with wealthy families, each of these things has its own room. Financially unstable families are unlikely to have an extra bedroom to spare.”

— uracil / petsdogs

17.“Worrying about using your credit cards, even though you know you can pay them off.”

— atomic number 92 / beek7419

18.“Chain sit-down restaurants.”

— u / Thirsty4aBrew

19.“Making monthly payments on your kid’s braces.”

— u / BoredBSEE

And finally…

20.“Having enough.”

— u / Professional - Sir-912

These entries have been edited for length and clarity .

A person looking through their wallet at their desk

A woman with her eyes closed on a dock in a lush vacation setting

A crowded garage

A man mowing his lawn

People in a grocery store

A child jumping into a pool

A family in a car

A casserole on a table with plates next to it

A garage full of tools

A woman buying something with her credit card on a tablet

Closeup of a little boy smiling and showing his braces